I have never pressed esc and I have never made a bug with EMS. If I did, it was not on purpose or on purpose, but I don't really understand the reason for the penalty I received, can you help me? (If what I did was a bug abuse, I don't understand how I managed it.)

When I bought the caravan, I was in diplomacy with only 1 family. As you can see in the video, the red car rammed the car and then they killed me without saying anything. Then they asked for the name of the family. When I didn't say it, they looked from the caravan, added enemies and stole the...