I know you're doing this to impress Chicky and take his place as forum warriors since his forum accounts are perma blocked but the least he could've done is teach you the rules. But I'm not surprised since he barely knows them himself. If someone RDMs you, then you
cannot shoot back in self-defense. These are rules directly from Mazhor I have confirmed this with him myself. And here is one of the current unofficial curators putting out an announcement in the unofficial chat letting family leaders including yours know of this. If your leader didn't make sure you knew rules like these then I'm not surprised why you break them