First of all it wasnt him that called for the back up which means it wasnt him that done Fail RP. Someone else at the situation dropped them MP causing as you say "15 gang members pulled up" to correct you it was 15 family members. Then your so called family started talking about peoples OOC parents, NLR, Fear RP, Bug abuse, Fail RP ect. If you think you have a point here please post your POV so we can see what you saw happen.
Secondly your family placed multiple UB solar panels which did get taken by admins and you got punished for it. Then after that your family came back to the place they had just died at not even 5 mins ago. Clearly NLR. You kept Combat logging and bug abusing to come back alive to enter your fam house and gear up to do the exact same thing again when you died.
Your family was clearly metagaming as you all knew what to do and what was going on and where it was even tho no one was talking in radios and you all knew where to be and what to do?
Clearly many rule breaks from you and i would like to see your POV of this...