Any Turkish administrator reviewing this forum would undoubtedly recognize that the term "son" (or "oglum") is frequently used as a casual slang term, rather than something that falls under General Rule 3.2. To be precise, he used this expression on the family radio, especially in the context of recalling the ammunition car. It’s important to note that I’m not complaining about him, as I understand he did not intend any harm. He addressed me with that term, and it was entirely my choice whether to take offense or not
—this is a personal matter, and not for you to judge.
The decision to voice any dissatisfaction or concern lies solely with me, not with anyone else. So, for the record, it is my prerogative whether I choose to complain or remain silent on the matter. You, as an outsider to this situation, should refrain from getting involved.
Furthermore, after this interaction, I was muted, and he even laughed at me—this is a matter between him and me, and I would appreciate it if you would simply mind your own business. You have no stake in this situation, and your interference is unwelcome. It’s unnecessary to insert yourself into issues that don’t concern you. It would be wise to show some restraint, rather than acting as though you’re entitled to speak on matters that do not involve you.
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